Like it or not, how we fight matters. We feel threatened and so we fight. Or if we don’t have the stomach for that, we run. Two people yelling, or accusing, or running away. Two people doing anything to avoid telling each other what they really feel. Just talk when you want to run, reveal when you want to attack. It’s so simple, so obvious. And at the same time, so incredibly hard. — Erica Strange, Dr. Tom
